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Friday, March 13, 2015

40 before 40


Happy Friday friends! On Sunday I turn 38. If you’ve read this blog for more than a minute, you know I love to make lists and set goals. Some are monthly, some are seasonal, and some reside on what I call my life list.

I never regret one day of getting older because too many people are denied the privilege. But I do look around and reflect during my birthday month. What experiences do I want to have next? Where do I want to go? What skills can I pick up? Big or small, it gives me something to look forward to.

Some things that I’ve crossed off my life list so far:
Get Lasik if I qualify, shoot a gun, buy a play pack for a season, take graphic design courses, get married in a way that fits us, work on a political campaign, swim with dolphins, see the sun rise over the ocean at the shore in all four seasons, try foie gras, host Thanksgiving/Christmas/Easter, do the Polar Bear Plunge, visit Bushkill Falls, spend the day at Walden Pond, drive across the Golden Gate Bridge, ride a street car, drink a Guinness in Ireland, take two weeks off in a row and spend them at the beach, make homemade pasta, touch a redwood tree, stand in Lake Michigan, perfect the turkey, see the sun rise on the east coast and set on the west coast of the US in the same day, take the elevator to the top of City Hall in Philadelphia, buy a house, tour Pennsylvania covered bridges.

If I had a fat bank account and unlimited days off, this list would basically be travel-related only. But I have neither, so I had to supplement with real life things. I'm also sharing this early because some are large travel goals that require time, planning, and cash money. 

My list of 40 things I'd like to do by my 40th birthday on March 15, 2017:

  1. See a play on Broadway
  2. Walk over the Brooklyn Bridge
  3. Skydive
  4. Go tubing on a river
  5. Volunteer at a soup kitchen
  6. Eat a lobster roll in Maine
  7. Stay in a Falls View room at Niagara Falls
  8. Write a novella
  9. Tip 100% of the bill at a restaurant
  10. Go whale watching
  11. See Mt. Rushmore
  12. Take a spontaneous weekend trip –deciding to go and leaving that same day
  13.  Watch Old Faithful blow
  14.  Stroll along the Seine 
  15.  Go to high tea
  16.  Learn conversational French
  17.  Adopt a family in need at Christmas
  18. Witness the changing of the guard at Buckingham Palace
  19. Go to a college football game
  20. Eat at a farm to table restaurant (stole this one from Jana, thanks friend!)
  21. Read two Agatha Christie novels – a Marple and a Poirot
  22. Participate in a walk to raise money for pancreatic cancer
  23. Get the tattoo on my back touched up
  24. Stand on the Cliffs of Moher
  25. Buy a pair of Frye boots
  26. Go to the opera
  27.  See the Mississippi River
  28.  Beignets at Café du Monde
  29.  Conquer my fear of the grill
  30.  See the Chincoteague Ponies
  31.  Have dinner at Vetri
  32. Cheesesteak tour in Philly
  33.  Visit the Morris Arboretum
  34.  Go to the Mutter Museum
  35.  Attend an author event at the Philadelphia Free Library
  36.  Get something published on HuffPost
  37. Take a cooking or baking class
  38.  Learn how to use a drill
  39.  Pick strawberries and make a strawberry pie from them
  40.  Bake French bread
What about you? Do you have any must dos?

Birthday weekend coming up! Happy birthday to my first roomie Peter on Saturday. Our moms were in the same hospital room when we were born, and we ended up going to school together and becoming friends. I love that story.

Enjoy your weekend and go ahead, have some cake for my birthday Sunday because

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